What is the true love? [我想想]

Many people believe that love is a sensation which magically generates when Mr. or Ms. Right appears. But what is the true love like?

Today,I watched this movie "love in the city" which tells us a story about love, kind of love i believed many years ago.
you are going to see two couples in the film. one is common. the other is common ,too. and what makes them marvelous is their sacrifice for love.
In the first couple, the girl has a genetic serious heart disease which causes too much danger for her to birth a baby and her mother died in this way. but she loves the boy so much that she decided to have a baby for him whatever danger she will meet, even death.
In the second couple, it's a multinational relationship between a Chinese translator and a Japanese actress. they once worked in a same film crew and then, it just happened that they fell in love. However, as you know, they are totally different people living in different regions and different social cultures. so they parted at the first time. but in the end, they threw these difference away and certainly lead a happy life.

I love this movie cuz it reminded me of the dream I had many years ago to own such a marvelous love someday. The story seems like a classical and typical chinese love fairy-tale which advocates an idea, that is ‘sacrifice in love’. I guess the idea was a mainstream in china at one time. but as the society becomes more material, the idea is fading. Shanghai, for instance, Danny always said ‘hey Josh, it will cost you so much to have a family in shanghai. Unless you are rich, unless you have a big house and a car, you have no chance to meet your Ms. Right.’ I hate to complain that but I have to recognize it’s true. You may ask how can that be? Who knows, people change.

Compared with Chinese idea of love, american’s seems simple, especially in the Hollywood films. They just follow their feelings. They never care about who you are or what your job is, even your gender . They can get married in Vegas in one night and divorce in the next morning. They can have sex with strangers meeting in the bars, clubs, or streets. What I want to say is that they are truly emotional and they really have tremendous passions. But actually, I don’t think the true love is that simple.

So what the earth is the true love? Is it like Chinese way or American way?
Perhaps we have read hundreds of love stories and heard thousands of love songs and watched millions of love movies.Guess what, we can’t just define it by media. Tell you the truth, I don’t know what it is like, cuz I’ve never tasted it.

No wonder so many people are in love now. some of them may think she/he has found the one god arranged and some of them also may doubt whether the one she/he is in love with is the only destiny. Anyway, I guess lovers focus on the things they have in common is better than in difference, just like what the second couple did.
Likewise no wonder so many people are still single now. most of them want to be loved, to touch the true love. And what are they supposed to do? I believe the best way to feel love is to be loving, which means giving love.So….give more love, maybe you will find your true love!